Relationship: The Musical

Shakespeare had it right: “if music be the food of love, play on.” I love music. You probably love music too. I don’t really know anyone who doesn’t. Music has a way of saying everything you wanted to say, but couldn’t. For every moment big or small, happy or sad, there’s a pretty good chance [...]

Adventures in Online Dating, Vol. 2

Here’s the thing about me: I’m kind of terrible at making decisions. Present me with too many choices and my brain will start to fry. Sometimes, I over-analyze everything and get so paralyzed by the possibilities that I can’t make a decision. Other times, I’ll decide quickly and then start second-guessing myself. So, naturally, I [...]

Adventures in Online Dating, Vol. 1

A few years ago, when some of my friends started getting engaged and then getting married, I was mostly happy for them. I didn’t particularly feel left out or jealous – after all, I wasn’t interested in being married then. I’ve been a bridesmaid a number of times now and, aside from uncomfortable bras and [...]